Are You Confident or Arrogant?

Christine McDonald
3 min readMar 16, 2022

Your response to arrogance is an indicator of YOUR confidence

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What’s the difference between arrogance and confidence?

I’d offer that arrogance is an outward display of an inward need to be validated. Whereas confidence is an inward surety outwardly sharing respectfully.

There’s an energy from arrogance that’s intense, pushy and unaccepting of resistance. Whereas the energy from confidence is subtle yet strong, inviting and informative.

Arrogance has an egotistical agenda. Confidence has a motivational agenda.

Before we beat arrogance up, let’s take a closer look behind the scenes.

Arrogance and Confidence are both a belief in the self. The difference is confidence has a belief in their higher Self. Arrogance has a belief in their personal self and struggles to convince others of it because deep down they don’t believe in themself.

ARROGANCE:

Beneath the Veil of arrogance, I believe, lies someone who:

  • Aches to be heard, acknowledged and respected. On the surface, that may sound egotistical but it’s really the soul’s true desire. Arrogance simply wrestles with what the soul is.
  • May talk incessantly — in hopes to…

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Christine McDonald

Spiritual Confidence Coach | Lifestyle Writer | Podcaster. Helping Emerging Adults & Millennials live more spiritually guided lives. www.GuidingLifeCoaching.com